You Are Beautiful Too

   What is beautiful and what is actually beauty? Got something to do with the quality that makes one good to look at or attractive.  Usually when we say that a woman is beautiful, we in fact already have a ready evaluation in our mind, a fixed mindset which follow the normal perception of our society today such as that of Miss Universe, Super Model... in which look is still the most important compare to other qualities. Beautiful = slender, curvy at the right places,a smile that melt hearts, a look that kills and so on. Well, of course quiz questions will be asked to test the IQ among contestants but....you  know and I know that again looks still get the most percentage of points plus voting calls from audiences who also vote on looks.

   Go out and have a look around us. Really see and feel what is actually beautiful without having a ready mindset.The birds, the flowers, the blue skies, the sea, the fresh air, the mountains... are all beautiful. See an old man holding his aging wife's hand, she is beautiful to him and he's handsome to her. A mother looking at her newborn baby, he's so tiny and skin still a bit crinkle but he's so beautiful to her. A child who is fat and short being teased for that but with a heart of angel is as beautiful as can be. Sometimes we wonder why a handsome guy married a plain Jane, again she is beautiful to him for qualities that we are not aware of. Inner qualities will last a lifetime but outer looks are impermanent. Put all the masks, splash all the wonder cream, do all the exercises, eat all the A-Z vitamins, get all the body therapies, botox jabs, plastic surgeries...blah...blah...blah...at the end of the day when we are 50, 60, 70, 80....our look no matter how will look old one day. Same for both men and women. Only inner beauty will cross the hand of time. It is natural to want to look and be beautiful in term of outlook but polishing up our inner beauty will give us this extra special shine that come from within. Attractive ! Be kind, helpful, understanding.....No beauty is up to par compare to all these.....

Prescription : Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.


(15.05.11-Sunday)